the water pitcher

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I’ve been experimenting with some Montessori things around the house. When I say Montessori, I mean keeping items that let Lux care for herself without asking for help.¬†I have long practiced the belief that child-appropriate-things will just materialize in my life at the necessary time, and I’ve often leaned away from buying things outright. However, three years into this, I’ve finally realized that some useful things must be sought out and purchased. And if you can manage to get them immediately after you conclude that your child would enjoy them, they turn out to be the most satisfying for both of you.

Some of these Montessori-type things have really been a hit and some have just been so-so, and I’ll try to document them as we try them out.¬†Anything I post here would be familiar to someone in the Montessori world; I don’t mean to pretend that I’ve discovered any of these nice ideas!

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First up: a hit. A 16oz glass pitcher, of satisfying weight, with a tight-fitting plastic top. I ordered one, and one day later, we concluded we needed two. One to sit on the table filled with water, waiting for a thirsty customer. Another filled with milk, sitting on an accessible shelf in the fridge, waiting for a starving toddler in the morning who has cereal and a bowl, but no milk.

The first night the pitcher arrived, I put it on the table with some glasses and Lux spent most of the meal asking us if we would like some more water and then solemnly pouring us half-glasses full. Joe and I were tossing water back just to keep up with our eager waiter. I felt she was 2x as engaged as usual and I had the aha moment-–time at the table for Lux is often an endless succession of requesting things and then waiting for her request to be filled. It was a treat to have her focused on what was happening and reversing the constant “I need” refrain.

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bridget
bridget
3 years 3 months ago

obviously i have to get this.

Jessica Clare
Jessica Clare
3 years 3 months ago

Love this! Can’t wait to read more. On another note: I know you’re a Dinner A Love Story fan, so I’m linkin’ you up to this….:) http://curiouscovetous.wordpress.com/2014/06/23/dinner-the-playbook/

Molly
Molly
3 years 3 months ago

What kind of “don’t make you nervous if broken” glasses do you use?

noelle
3 years 2 months ago

This made me smile because I use this pitcher for making iced coffee and West checks the fridge every day to see if he can reach the milk. I’m now living for the moment I can ask him for water right as he’s about to take his first bite of food.

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